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Friends Like These

Loyalty, falling out, inclusion and navigating the complicated world of other people.

Friendship gets genuinely complicated in these years — best friends fall out, groups form and reform, loyalty gets tested, and "who's in and who's out" starts to matter in ways it didn't before. These scenarios walk through the real, messy situations kids run into with the kids they spend the most time with.

Expect conversations about what to do when you find out you were left out of something, how to handle a friend who's suddenly acting differently, what loyalty actually means when two friends don't get along, and how to tell a real friend from someone who's just around. The goal isn't a rulebook for friendship — it's practice noticing what's going on and deciding what to do about it.

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The New Girl Nobody Talks To
A new girl called Sofia started at your school a few weeks ago. She's quiet and mostly keeps to herself. At lunch, she usually sits…
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The Friend Who Stopped Showing Up
A boy called Liam and his best friend Tom had been inseparable for two years. Then, over a few months, Tom gradually stopped being…
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Two Groups, Two Versions of You
You've noticed something about yourself. With your school friends, you're loud and jokey. With your friends from sport, you're quieter and…
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The Group That Quietly Shut Him Out
A boy called Eli used to be part of a group of six friends. Then, gradually, things shifted. He wasn't invited to the last two birthday…
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Making Friends When It Feels Impossible
You've been at your school for a few months now and you still haven't found your people. You try to join conversations but feel like you're…
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The Friend You're Not Sure About
There's someone in your class you've been spending more time with lately. They're funny and interesting, and you like them. But you've also…
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Different Friends, Different Worlds
A girl called Nadia has her school friends, her cousin who she's incredibly close with, a friend from her old neighbourhood, and a newer…
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When You Said Goodbye
Your closest friend is moving to another city. She's the person who knows your whole history — every inside joke, every hard moment, every…
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The Friendship That Faded From Your Side
You've realised that you've been quietly pulling away from someone who was once a good friend. Not dramatically — you haven't been unkind.…
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The Person Nobody Expected to Like
A boy called James started spending time with a classmate called Priya — someone his usual friends thought was nerdy, too intense, and 'not…
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Hot and Cold
Your friend is your absolute best friend one day — choosing you for everything at recess, saving you a seat at lunch, inside jokes. The…
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The Friend Who Only Shows Up When It's Convenient
A girl called Mia noticed that her friend Jade only seems to reach out when her other friends are busy — when she's bored, needs homework…
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The Friend Who Makes You Feel Small
Every time something good happens for you, this friend finds a way to shrink it. Good test result: 'The teacher marks that one easily.'…
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Too Many Rules
A girl called Ella and her best friend have been close for two years. But Ella has started to notice that the friendship comes with a lot…
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The Gift That Came With a Price
A classmate has been generous with you — giving you things, offering to help, covering for you once or twice. At first it felt like genuine…
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You Were the Bystander
Your friend group said some genuinely unkind things to someone at school — not light teasing, actually cutting. You were there. You didn't…
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The Favour That Kept Growing
Mia's friend asked her to cover once — to say Mia's friend was at her house when she wasn't. Mia did it. Then it happened again. Then…
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When You Did the Hurting
In a fight with a close friend, you said something personal — something they'd told you in confidence — and used it as a weapon. The look…
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The Jealousy That Came Out Sideways
Your best friend got something you really wanted — the lead in the school play you both tried out for, a spot on the sports team, or an…
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The Friend Who Turned the Group Against Her
A girl called Zoe had a falling out with her close friend. Since then, her former friend has been talking to their mutual friends one by…
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The Friend Who Always Needs Saving
Your friend has a crisis every week. Real problems, sometimes — but often escalated situations that seem to require your immediate…
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The Popularity Trade-Off
You're being invited into a more popular group at school. They're fun, they do interesting things, and the inclusion feels good. But…
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The Screenshot
Your friend sends you an embarrassing screenshot of something a classmate wrote in a private chat. Your friend says it's funny and has…
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The Dare
Some older kids dare you to do something that feels risky — climb over a fence with a 'Keep Out' sign, take something from a shop, go…
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Hiding What He Actually Likes
A boy called Leo genuinely loved a film that came out recently. He told a few friends he'd seen it and thought it was great. His social…
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When Your Friend Group Turns on Someone
Your friend group has decided they 'hate' someone in your year. The reasons seem petty. They're leaving unkind comments, talking about her…
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The Cheating Offer
Right before your exam, the person next to you slides their phone toward you. They've photographed the answer sheet somehow. Nobody is…
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The Rating List
Someone at school created an anonymous list ranking people in the year by appearance and shared it online. Some people are sharing it and…
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Always Picked Last
In PE class, teams get chosen by two captains. The same few people get picked last every single time. Today you're one of the captains. The…
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Left Out of the Plans
On Monday morning, you arrive at school to find out that your friend group got together on Saturday — without you. Nobody mentioned it…
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When She Spread the Rumour
A girl called Oona heard something about a classmate — that he cheated on a test — and she told three people. Now it's everywhere and he's genuinely upset…
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Going Along With It
A group of kids your friend hangs out with started mocking someone regularly — their clothes, the way they talk, small things that became…
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The Loyalty Test
Your best friend did something genuinely unkind to another person. That person told a teacher, who now asks you directly whether you saw…
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When He Left Someone Out
Looking back on a group situation — a project, a plan, a game — a boy called Keir realises he deliberately didn't include someone. Not because he disliked…
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You Were the Bossy One
Looking back on a group project or a situation you planned with friends, you realise that you took over — deciding things without asking,…
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The Version of You That You Don't Like
When you're with a particular group, you become someone you don't fully recognise — you say things you don't believe, laugh at things you…
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The Story He Told
After a falling out with a classmate, a boy called Theo told his version of events to everyone who would listen. His version made him look…
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When You Were the One Who Didn't Say Sorry
You and a friend had a falling out a few weeks ago. You both said things you shouldn't have. The argument is over in the sense that you're…
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You Let Them Believe Something That Wasn't True
You didn't lie exactly. But you let someone believe something that wasn't quite true — you didn't correct an assumption they made, you left…
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What She Noticed About Herself
A girl called Tara has been paying attention to her own patterns lately. She's noticed that she tends to talk over people without meaning…
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The Apology That Wasn't Enough
You hurt your friend — said something cutting, broke a trust, did something you knew was wrong. You apologised and you meant it. But your…
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When You Don't Like Who You Are Around Them
You've noticed that with one particular group, you become someone you don't really like. You say things you'd be embarrassed to repeat at…
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The Thing She Said She Didn't Mean
In an argument, a girl called Aisha said something to her friend that she knew was genuinely hurtful — not just heated words, but something…
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You Stopped Being a Good Friend
You've realised that over the past few months, you've been a pretty inconsistent friend — not in a dramatic way, but in the small ways that…
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The Game That Got Weird
You've been gaming online for months with someone who says they're thirteen like you. The friendship has felt real — you've shared things,…
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The Fake Profile
Someone created a fake profile with a made-up name and started messaging people from school, asking questions like 'Who do you like?' and…
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She Posted Without Asking
A girl called Rhona filmed something at a gathering — her friend doing something funny and a bit embarrassing. She posted it without asking them because it…
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The Compliment That Escalated
Someone you vaguely know from school started commenting on all your photos — 'gorgeous,' 'most beautiful person I've ever seen.' At first…
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The Online Friend Who Wanted to Meet
A boy called Finn has been talking online with someone he met through a gaming community for three months. They get on really well — same…
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The Group Chat That Went Too Far
You're part of a group chat where people share screenshots, comments, and sometimes videos of other people — usually for laughs, usually…
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When You Were the One Posting
You were part of a group chat where people were sharing unflattering photos and making unkind jokes about someone you know from school. You…
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The Private Message That Became Public
In a moment of frustration, you sent a message in a private chat saying something harsh about a teacher. One of the people in that chat…
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The Group Chat She Wasn't In
A girl called Jade found out that her friend group had a second group chat she wasn't part of. In that chat, the group had been sharing…
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The Screenshot She Sent
A girl called Anika screenshotted a conversation — something funny and a bit embarrassing that a friend wrote in a private chat — and sent it to another…
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The Very Friendly Neighbour
A boy called Daniel has a neighbour who is always warm and generous — lollies, invitations inside, long conversations. The neighbour has…
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The Teacher's Special Attention
Your teacher has told you privately that you're their favourite student and that you have a special connection. They've started messaging…
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The Grown-Up Who Shared Too Much
A parent of one of her classmates has started treating a girl called Rosa like a confidant — sharing personal problems, saying Rosa is the…
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The Touch That Felt Wrong
A trusted adult in your life — someone your family knows and likes — sometimes touches you in ways that make you uncomfortable. Long hugs…
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The Cool Older Teenager
A teenager from the neighbourhood has started paying a lot of attention to a boy called Sam — saying Sam is mature for his age, suggesting…
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The Adult Who Said Keep It Between Us
An adult you know — not a stranger, someone your family is familiar with — said something to you recently that ended with: 'Let's keep this…
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The Questions That Added Up
A girl called Maya had been talking online to someone she met through a fan community. They seemed kind and relatable — same interests,…
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Is This Friendship Real?
An adult you know has been paying you a lot of individual attention lately. They say things like 'you're different from other kids' and 'I…
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The Friend Who's Not Okay
Your close friend has been different for a few weeks — quieter, less interested in things they used to love, cancelling plans. When you…
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When Grief Looked Like Anger
A boy called Oliver's best friend moved away six months ago. Since then, Oliver has been harder to get along with — quicker to snap, less…
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When You Feel Like You Don't Belong
You've been in your current school or group for a while, but you've never fully felt like you belong. You can function, you have people to…
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The Fight That Left a Mark
Two close friends — Mia and Jade — had a big argument two weeks ago. Both said things that went too far. The fight has been over in the…
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Making the First Move
There's someone at school you'd genuinely like to be friends with — you've noticed them, you think they're interesting, you suspect you'd…
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The Friend Who Showed Up
A girl called Lily went through a hard year — a parent's illness, a house move, a lot of disruption. One friend showed up consistently…
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The Compliment You Couldn't Accept
Someone gave you a genuine compliment — about your work, your character, something you did. Instead of just saying thank you, you deflected…
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Different Kinds of Brave
Two friends both faced scary moments this week. One spoke up in class when she didn't know the answer but tried anyway. The other walked…
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When the Friendship Ended Without a Reason
A friendship you valued has ended — no fight, no explanation, just a clear withdrawal. The person has moved on and doesn't seem to want the…
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Jealous of Your Friend's New Friend
Your best friend made a new close friend recently and talks about her constantly. You feel something you don't really want to admit to…
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When Being Different Felt Like a Problem
A boy called Ravi has always been a bit different from most of the kids at his school — different interests, different sense of humour,…
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What You've Learned From the Hard Parts
Looking back over the past year, you can point to friendship moments that were genuinely difficult — falling outs, misunderstandings, times…
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What Makes a True Friend
You're in a reflective moment — looking at the friendships you have, how they feel, what they give you and what they cost you. Some feel…
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