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90 This or That Questions for Kids (Printable Game)
This or that is the fastest conversation game there is: say two things, kid picks one, done — no explaining required (though "why" is always a good follow-up if they're in the mood). Below are 90 pairs, sorted by category.
How to play
Simplest game there is. One person reads both options, the other picks instantly — no overthinking allowed, first answer wins. Great for groups: go around a circle and see how differently everyone answers the same pair.
Food this or that
- Pizza or tacos?
- Ice cream or cake?
- Pancakes or waffles?
- Sweet or salty?
- Chocolate or vanilla?
- French fries or chips?
- Cereal or toast for breakfast?
- Apples or bananas?
- Burgers or hot dogs?
- Popcorn or candy at the movies?
- Soup or salad?
- Spicy or mild?
Animal this or that
- Dogs or cats?
- Lions or tigers?
- Ocean animals or jungle animals?
- Birds or fish?
- Big pet or small pet?
- Horses or elephants?
- Sharks or dolphins?
- Butterflies or bees?
- Snakes or spiders (least scary)?
- Farm animals or zoo animals?
Activity this or that
- Swimming or biking?
- Reading or drawing?
- Board games or video games?
- Indoors or outdoors?
- Beach or mountains?
- Summer or winter?
- Sports or music?
- Building something or making up a story?
- Team sports or solo sports?
- Camping or a hotel?
- Roller coasters or water slides?
- Museum or amusement park?
Everyday this or that
- Mornings or nights?
- Weekdays or weekends?
- Rain or snow?
- Hot weather or cold weather?
- Window seat or aisle seat?
- Stairs or elevator?
- Texting or calling (if you had to pick)?
- Early bedtime or early wake-up?
- Bath or shower?
- Backpack or bag?
Entertainment this or that
- Movies or TV shows?
- Books or audiobooks?
- Music or podcasts?
- Comedy or adventure?
- Superheroes or wizards?
- Cartoons or live action?
- Video games or board games?
- Concerts or sports games?
- New movie or rewatch a favorite?
- Funny or scary (movies)?
School this or that
- Math or reading?
- Art or gym?
- Recess or lunch?
- Group projects or solo projects?
- Tests or presentations?
- Field trips or free periods?
- Homework right after school or after dinner?
- Sitting near the window or near the door?
- Show and tell or a spelling bee?
- Library time or computer time?
Silly this or that
- Fly or be invisible?
- Talk to animals or speak every language?
- Never eat vegetables again or never eat dessert again?
- Be really tall or really fast?
- Live in a treehouse or a houseboat?
- Glow in the dark or turn invisible in sunlight?
- Have a pet dragon or a pet unicorn?
- Always be a little too hot or a little too cold?
- Smell everything a dog can smell or hear everything a dog can hear?
- Have hiccups for a day or a sneeze that never quite happens?
Family this or that
- Family movie night or family game night?
- Big family gatherings or quiet nights at home?
- Home-cooked dinner or takeout night?
- Family vacation or a staycation?
- Sharing a room or having your own?
- Pizza night or taco night, as a family tradition?
- Being the oldest or the youngest?
- A big birthday party or a small one with your favorite people?
- Grandma's house or a hotel, on a trip?
- Helping cook or helping clean up?
Would-you-rather-adjacent this or that (harder picks)
- Be really good at one thing or pretty good at everything?
- Have one best friend or a big group of friends?
- Know all the answers or figure them out yourself?
- Get a surprise or plan everything in advance?
- Be famous or just really respected by people who know you?
- Have more time or more money?
The best this-or-that isn't the fastest one — it's the one where two people in the same family give completely different answers.
Want to go a little deeper than a quick pick?
This or that is a great warm-up — for something with more to actually talk through, try our scenario library: real-life situations by age and topic, with guided questions built in.
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