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What Am I Feeling?

Naming emotions, understanding big feelings and learning that all feelings are okay.

Before kids can manage a big feeling, they need to be able to name it — and at this age, that's often the missing piece. This topic is a vocabulary-builder for emotions as much as anything else: mad, sad, jealous, embarrassed, excited, worried, all given words and permission.

Scenarios walk through recognizing what a feeling is called, what to do when a feeling gets too big to hold in, understanding that all feelings — even the uncomfortable ones — are okay to have, and simple ways to calm down when something upsets you.

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The Funny Tummy
Mia woke up with a funny feeling in her tummy. It wasn't a sick feeling. It was a fluttery, wobbly feeling. Today was her first day at a new school. Mum said…
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The Tower That Fell
Theo built the tallest tower ever. Block on block on block. He was nearly at the top. Then his little brother crawled past and — crash! — the whole thing…
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The Sad That Came From Nowhere
Lily woke up feeling sad. Nothing bad had happened. It was a normal day. But her bottom lip felt wobbly and her chest felt heavy. She just felt sad inside.…
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Too Excited to Sit Still
Today was the day! Sam was going to the farm. He was SO excited that his legs kept jiggling and his voice came out loud and squeaky. He bounced on the sofa. He…
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The Jealous Feeling
It was Ava's cousin's birthday. Her cousin got a shiny new bike with a bell. Everyone said "wow!" Ava watched, and a prickly, twisty feeling grew in her chest.…
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The Dark Bedroom
When the light went off, Noah's room changed. The shadows looked like shapes. A coat on the door looked like a monster. His heart went thump-thump-thump and he…
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The Shoes That Wouldn't Work
Zara was trying to do up her shoes all by herself. She pulled the straps. She pushed. They wouldn't stick. She tried again. Still no. A hot, grumbly feeling…
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The Big Trip
Leo was carrying the snack box to the table, very proud to be the helper. Then his foot caught the rug and — whoops! — he tripped, and the crackers flew…
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The Party at the Door
Mia stood at the door of the birthday party. Inside, it was loud and bright, with lots of children running about. Mia wanted to go in. But her feet felt stuck,…
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Look What I Made
Kai worked so hard on his junk-model rocket. He stuck on bottle tops and shiny paper and a long cardboard nose. When it was done, a warm, glowy feeling filled…
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Nobody to Play With
At the playground, everyone seemed to have someone. Ben stood by the slide on his own. He watched the others run and laugh together. His chest felt achy and…
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The Rained-Off Day
Maya had been waiting all week to go to the park. She'd thought about the swings every day. But when the morning came, rain hammered on the window. "Sorry,…
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The Giggles That Wouldn't Stop
At quiet time, something struck Omar as funny — he wasn't even sure what. A giggle bubbled up. He tried to hold it in, but that made it worse. Soon he was…
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Missing Mum
Mum had gone to work, and Ruby was with Grandad for the day. They had toys and snacks and a lovely time planned. But all morning, a heavy, achy feeling sat in…
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The Boring Rainy Afternoon
It had been raining for days. Finn had played with everything. Now he lay on the floor, sighing big sighs. "I'm booooored," he groaned. "There's nothing to…
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The Surprise
Nina walked into the kitchen and — "SURPRISE!" — everyone jumped out. Balloons! A cake! For a tiny second, Nina's heart jumped and she froze, eyes wide. Then…
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The Quiet Corner
Jack had had a big feelings morning. He'd been cross, then sad, then cross again. Everything felt loud and tangled inside. Then he climbed into the cosy…
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Happy and Sad at Once
Grandma had stayed for a whole week, and it had been wonderful. Now she was leaving, her bags by the door. Hana felt funny inside. She was happy about all the…
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Too Much Noise
The party was loud. Music, shouting, a balloon popped — BANG! There were so many people and so much noise. Eli felt his hands go over his ears. It was all too…
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The Biggest Warm Feeling
Tess was watching her baby brother fall asleep. His tiny hand curled around her finger. Something enormous and warm filled her chest, right up to the top —…
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The Biscuit Secret
Sofia wasn't allowed a biscuit before tea. But the tin was right there, and nobody was looking. She took one and ate it fast. Yum! But afterwards, a yucky,…
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The Words That Stung
Daniel was showing his painting when another child said, "That's rubbish." Just two words — but they hit Daniel like a little sting, right in the chest. His…
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The Big Slide
The big slide was tall — taller than Bea had ever gone. Her friends whooshed down, laughing. Bea climbed up, looked over the edge, and her tummy flipped. It…
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Two's Company
Amara ran over to play with her two friends. But today they were playing a special game, just the two of them, and they didn't make room for her. "Not now,"…
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The Wobbly Visit
Tomorrow, Yusuf was going to the dentist for the very first time. He didn't know what it would be like. His brain kept making up scary pictures. Tonight, lying…
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Not Yet
At the pool, all the other children were swimming without their armbands. Cora still needed hers. She watched them splash and glide, and a sinking feeling…
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The Worry That Was for Nothing
Max had worried all week about his swimming badge test. His tummy had been tight for days. Then he did the test — and it was over so fast! He got his badge. As…
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Waiting for a Turn
There was one red scooter, and Ivy wanted it NOW. But another child was using it. "When's it my turn?" Ivy asked. "Soon," said the grown-up. But "soon" felt…
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The Thing Rosa Wanted to Say
At circle time, Rosa knew the answer. She really did. But the room felt big and loud, and the other children were so confident. Every time she opened her…
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The Overtired Wobble
It had been a long, busy, exciting day. By bedtime, everything was making Adam cry — his socks felt wrong, his cup was the wrong colour, his story was too…
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Crying at the Sad Part
The film got to the sad part, where the little lost dog couldn't find its way home. Theo felt his eyes fill up with tears. He quickly wiped them away and…
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Happy for a Friend
Lily's friend Priya won the "kind helper" sticker. Lily had wanted it too. For a second, a little prickle came — but then she looked at Priya's beaming face,…
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Cross With a Best Friend
Sam and his best friend always played together. But today they argued over whose turn it was, and his friend grabbed the toy. Sam felt cross — really cross.…
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The Helping Hand
Maya dropped her whole tub of crayons, and they rolled everywhere across the floor. Before she could even start to worry, a girl she didn't know very well…
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The Big Barky Dog
A big dog came bounding toward Nina in the park, barking loudly. Its owner was far away. Nina's heart raced and she wanted to run and scream. The dog was so…
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The New Baby Coming
Mum's tummy was getting big. A new baby was coming soon. Everyone was excited. But Omar had a swirl of feelings he couldn't sort out — happy, but also worried.…
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Losing the Game
Kai was playing a board game with his family, and he lost. His sister cheered because she'd won. A hot, stingy feeling rushed up in Kai. He wanted to flip the…
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All Eyes on Me
It was Ava's birthday, and everyone started singing "Happy Birthday" to her, all looking right at her. Ava loved her birthday — but having everyone stare and…
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Making Up
Ben and his friend had fallen out yesterday over a knocked-down sandcastle, and they hadn't spoken since. Now Ben missed playing together. There was a tight,…
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I Don't Like That
Uncle Rob loved to tickle. Usually it was fun, but today Lena had had enough — she felt squirmy and uncomfortable and wanted it to stop. "Tickle tickle!"…
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When My Friend Was Sad
At playgroup, Mia saw her friend sitting alone, crying. Mia felt a little achy feeling for her friend. She didn't know what had happened. She wasn't sure what…
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The Dancing Feeling
The music came on, sunny and bouncy, and something wonderful bubbled up in Theo. He couldn't help it — his feet started tapping, his arms started waving, and…
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The New Food
There was something new on Sofia's plate — green, lumpy, and strange-looking. Everyone said it was yummy. But Sofia wasn't sure. It didn't look like anything…
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The Calm-Down Trick
Adam felt the hot angry feeling rising up — his game wasn't working and he wanted to throw the controller. But this time, he remembered something. He stopped.…
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The Good Kind of Proud
Priya saw a younger child drop their teddy and not notice. She picked it up and ran after them to give it back. The little one beamed. Nobody told Priya to do…
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The Hard Goodbye
At the school door, it was time for Mum to go. Noah knew he'd have fun once he was inside — he always did. But right now, watching Mum get ready to leave, a…
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The Grumbly Tummy Mood
It was nearly lunchtime, and everything was annoying Bea. Her sock felt funny. Her brother breathed too loudly. Her drink was too warm. She felt cross at…
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The Wonder Feeling
Kai found a snail in the garden, slowly sliding along, leaving a shiny trail. He crouched right down to watch. How did it move with no legs? Why was its shell…
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The Truth That Was Hard to Say
Eli was playing ball inside, even though he knew he shouldn't. The ball knocked a vase and it cracked. His heart thudded. He could say the cat did it. The…
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All My Feelings
At bedtime, Ravi thought about his big day. He'd felt excited at breakfast, frustrated with his puzzle, proud of his painting, sad when his friend went home,…
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Will Anyone Come?
It was almost time for Zoe's birthday party in the park. She had picked the invitations, chosen a chocolate cake, and asked Mum to invite everyone in her class. Slowly, the yeses came in — on…
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