You've started to notice something about yourself. One-on-one, you're kind. You're thoughtful. You'd never be cruel to someone's face if it was just the two of you. But in a group — especially a certain group — you become a different person. Louder, harsher, quicker to laugh at someone, more willing to go along with things. It's like the group switches on a version of you that you don't even like very much. You're not sure who the "real" you is. The kind one who shows up when you're alone with someone? Or the sharper one who appears in the crowd? They're both you. And lately you've been wondering which one you want to be.