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Staying Safe

Body safety, trusted adults, strangers and knowing what to do when something feels wrong.

This is the topic every parent means to get to and puts off because it feels heavy — body safety, trusted adults, strangers, and what to do when something feels wrong. Written in age-appropriate, non-scary language, so the conversation can happen calmly instead of as an emergency.

Scenarios cover who counts as a "trusted adult" and how to identify one, what to do if a stranger approaches you, body safety basics in plain, comfortable words, and — most importantly — that it's always okay to tell a grown-up if something feels off, no matter what anyone says.

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My Body Belongs to Me
Mia was learning something important from Mum. "Your body belongs to you," Mum said. "The parts your swimming costume covers are your private parts, and…
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No Thank You
Uncle Sam loved to tickle, and usually it was fun. But today Theo had had enough — he felt squirmy and wanted it to stop. "Tickle tickle!" laughed Uncle Sam,…
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The Uh-Oh Feeling
Sometimes Lily got a funny feeling inside — a little "uh-oh" feeling, like something wasn't quite right. She couldn't always explain it. It might be a wobbly…
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The Secret That Felt Wrong
Someone told Sam to keep a secret — and said he mustn't tell his mum or dad. The secret gave Sam a funny, uncomfortable feeling inside, not a happy-surprise…
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My Trusted Grown-Ups
Ava was making a list — not on paper, but in her head — of her trusted grown-ups. The people she could always go to if she felt scared, hurt, or unsure. There…
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It's Always Okay to Tell
Something had happened that made Noah feel funny and worried, but he hadn't told anyone yet. He was scared he might get in trouble, or that it was too late to…
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The Stranger's Sweets
At the park, a grown-up Zara didn't know came over and held out a bag of sweets. "Would you like one?" they said with a big smile. The sweets looked nice, and…
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Come and Help Me
A grown-up Leo didn't know called over to him. "Can you help me find my lost puppy? It's just over here, come and see." The puppy sounded sweet, and Leo loved…
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Lost in the Shop
In the big, busy shop, Kai turned around and Mum wasn't there. He'd stopped to look at something, and now he couldn't see her anywhere. His heart started to…
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My Loud Voice
Maya was learning that she had a big, loud voice she could use if she ever needed help or felt unsafe. Usually she used a quiet, polite voice. But Mum taught…
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The Meeting Spot
Before going into the busy fair, Reuben's family made a plan. "If anyone gets separated," said Dad, "we all meet right here, by the big clock." Reuben looked…
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A Safe Helper
Finn was learning about "safe helpers" — the people you can ask for help if you ever need it and your grown-up isn't there. Mum explained that a police…
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My Name and Where I Live
Someone Nina didn't know asked her, "What's your name? Where do you live?" The person was a grown-up she'd never met. Nina knew her name and address — she'd…
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I Have to Tell My Grown-Up
At the park, an older child Jack sort of knew said, "Come with me, let's go to the other playground over there." It wasn't far, but it was away from where…
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Stop, Look, Listen
Hana and Dad came to the edge of the road. Hana wanted to dash across to the park she could see on the other side. But Dad held her hand and said, "We stop at…
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Hot!
In the kitchen, Eli saw the kettle steaming and a pan bubbling on the cooker. There was a mug of hot tea on the table too. Eli was curious and wanted to touch…
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Sharp Things
Tess wanted to cut some paper, and she saw the big, sharp kitchen scissors on the side. She also saw a sharp knife near the chopping board. They looked useful…
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They Look Like Sweets
Priya found a little bottle of colourful pills that looked just like sweets. They were small and bright and round. She nearly popped one in her mouth, thinking…
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Under the Sink
Sofia opened the cupboard under the sink and found bottles of colourful cleaning liquids. Some were bright and pretty, like juice. She was curious. But these…
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Never Play With Fire
Daniel found a box of matches and a lighter on the table. He'd seen grown-ups make little flames with them, and he was curious to try. But he stopped himself.…
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The Plug Socket
Bea noticed the little holes in the plug socket on the wall. She was curious and thought about poking something into them to see what would happen. But she…
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The Open Window
Amara wanted to see out of the upstairs window, but it was too high for her. She thought about climbing up onto the windowsill, or stacking up some boxes to…
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Never in the Bath Alone
Yusuf loved bath time. The water was warm and there were bubbles and toys. He wanted to climb in by himself and play. But he knew the rule: children are never…
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Small Things and Big Bites
Cora was eating grapes while running around the room, taking big bites and giggling. She also liked putting small toys near her mouth. Mum gently reminded her:…
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Where a Grown-Up Can See
At the swimming pool, Max wanted to go and explore the deeper part on his own. The water looked fun. But the rule at the pool was clear: always stay in the…
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The Edge of the Pond
At the park, there was a pond with ducks. Ivy wanted to get right up close to the edge to see them, leaning over the water. But the edge was slippery, and the…
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Can I Stroke Your Dog?
Rosa saw a fluffy dog on a lead with its owner. She loved dogs and wanted to run straight over and cuddle it. But she remembered: even friendly-looking dogs…
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Where's My Helmet?
Adam wanted to zoom off on his scooter, but he'd forgotten his helmet. "I don't need it, I'll be quick!" he said. But the rule was clear: helmet on every time,…
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Careful on the Climbing Frame
At the playground, the climbing frame was busy. Lena wanted to climb fast and push past the others to get to the top. But she remembered to be careful: climb…
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Buckled Up
In the car, Grace didn't feel like being in her car seat today. She wanted to wriggle out of the straps. And she kept reaching for the door handle, curious.…
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Finding a Grown-Up
Reuben was learning what to do if something went wrong and he needed help fast. "The most important thing," said Mum, "is to find a grown-up — call out, shout,…
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I Know My Numbers
Finn was practising something important with Dad: his own full name, Dad's phone number, and where he lived. It was like learning a little song. Finn didn't…
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Calling for Help
Nina was learning, calmly, about the emergency phone number — the one you call (or a grown-up calls) if there's a real emergency, like a fire or someone very…
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When a Grown-Up Needs Help
Jack was at home with his grandad when Grandad suddenly felt very unwell and sat down heavily, looking poorly. Jack felt worried — usually Grandad looked after…
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The Fire Drill
Hana's family practised what to do if there was ever a fire at home. "If the smoke alarm beeps," said Dad, "we get out quickly and calmly, we don't stop for…
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Too Rough
A bigger child was playing with Eli, but kept being too rough — squeezing too hard, holding him when he wanted to get up, not stopping when Eli said "ow." Eli…
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The Unsafe Game
Some children wanted Tess to play a game that involved climbing onto a high wall and jumping off. It looked dangerous, and Tess felt scared — but the others…
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Even Someone We Know
Priya was learning something important. The body-safety rules — your body belongs to you, private parts are private, and you can always tell — are true with…
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No, Go, Tell
Sofia was learning a little rule that put lots of safety ideas together: No, Go, Tell. If something ever feels unsafe or wrong, you say No (if you can), you Go…
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The Stranger in the Game
Daniel was playing a game on the tablet when a message popped up from another player he didn't know. "Hi! What's your name? Where do you go to school?" Daniel…
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The Funny Feeling About a Person
There was a person Bea sometimes saw who gave her a funny, uneasy feeling. They hadn't really done anything she could point to — but something about being near…
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The Promise You Can Break
Someone told Amara something that worried her, and then said, "Promise you won't tell anyone — you promised, so you can't break it." Amara had said "okay"…
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Even If They'll Be Angry
Something had happened that Yusuf knew he should tell a grown-up about. But the person involved had said, "If you tell, I'll be really angry with you." That…
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At the Doctor
Cora had to see the doctor because her tummy hurt. Mum was right there with her the whole time. The doctor needed to gently check Cora's tummy to help her get…
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Our Secret Code Word
A grown-up Max didn't know came up after school and said, "Your mum sent me to take you home. Come with me." Max felt unsure. He didn't know this person. But…
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Helping a Friend Tell
Ivy's friend told her something that worried her — something that didn't sound safe was happening to her friend. The friend was scared and didn't want to tell…
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Separated on the Walk
On a group outing to the woods, Rosa stopped to look at an interesting leaf, and when she looked up, the group had walked on without noticing. She couldn't see…
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A Secret About My Body
Adam was learning one of the most important safety rules of all. If anyone ever touched his private parts, or asked him to touch theirs, or asked him to keep…
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Safe Is More Important Than Polite
Lena had always been taught to be polite. But Mum taught her something else, too: if Lena ever felt unsafe, it was okay to not be polite — to say "no" loudly,…
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My Safe People and My Safe Rules
At bedtime, Ravi was thinking about all the safety things he'd learned. His body belonged to him. He had trusted grown-ups. He knew "No, Go, Tell." He could…
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