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Head Over Heels

Romance, dating, breakups, jealousy, and learning what healthy actually looks like.

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First Crush Panic
You've started noticing every tiny thing about one specific person — the way they laugh, where they sit at lunch, whether they said hi first. None of this is…
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Working Up To It
Sana has liked the same boy for almost two months now. She's replayed telling him a hundred different ways in her head — casual, dramatic, funny, by text, in…
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Asking Someone Out
You've decided you're actually going to do it — ask them out for real, not just think about it anymore. You've rehearsed a few different versions of what to…
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Saying No Kindly
Someone worked up the nerve to ask you out, and you don't feel the same way back. You could tell it took something for them to ask — their voice was different,…
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Turned Down
You asked, and the answer was no. It wasn't cruel — they were actually pretty kind about it — but it still landed hard, harder than you expected given how much…
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Performing on the First Date
Owen has been looking forward to this first date for a week, and now that it's actually happening, he's noticed something strange: he keeps laughing a little…
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The Boy He Didn't Expect to Like
Milo has known for a while that he likes boys, and he's known for a few weeks now, specifically, that he likes Caleb — the way he draws in the margins of his…
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Loving Your Best Friend
Farida and her best friend have been inseparable since they were nine. Lately, though, something's shifted on Farida's side — she's started noticing things she…
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The Same Person
You and one of your closest friends have both ended up liking the same person, and neither of you planned this — it just happened, separately, around the same…
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Mixed Signals
Devika can't figure out where she stands. One day this guy sits with her at lunch, texts her all evening, seems genuinely interested. The next, he's distant,…
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Public Or Private
You and your partner started dating recently, and you want to keep it low-key for a while — figure things out privately before it becomes a whole topic of…
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The First Kiss
Aiden has been dating someone for a few weeks, and he's noticed a kind of pressure building that has nothing to do with anything his partner has actually said…
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Watching Them With Someone Else
Your partner has a close friend they've had since before you two started dating, and lately every time the three of you are in the same space, you feel…
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Where Are You
Selin's boyfriend has started texting more than he used to — not sweet, random check-ins, but specific questions: where are you, who are you with, why didn't…
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Compared to Everyone Else
You scroll past another couple's anniversary post, another friend's perfect-looking date night, another story about some grand romantic gesture, and each time…
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Uneven Ground
Bex has been dating someone for two months, and lately she's noticed a gap that's hard to ignore — she thinks about him constantly, plans around him, is quick…
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Ghosted
Things were going well — real conversations, plans that felt like they meant something, the specific kind of connection that doesn't happen often. Then, with…
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The Easy Way Out
You've been avoiding someone's texts for a week now — not because anything dramatic happened, just because things had run their course and you didn't know how…
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Too Soon
Marisol's last relationship ended six weeks ago, and she's already seeing someone new — someone great, actually, who makes her laugh and pays attention to her…
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The One Who Ended It
You broke up with someone who didn't do anything wrong. They were kind to you, consistent, genuinely good — it just wasn't right, in a way that's hard to…
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Blindsided
You didn't see it coming. One day things felt normal, maybe even good, and the next you were being told it was over — calmly, kindly even, but completely out…
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No One to Blame
Andre and his girlfriend broke up last month, and neither of them did anything wrong. No cheating, no big fight, no clear moment where it went bad — they just…
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Still Friends?
You and your ex broke up a few weeks ago, and you've both said you want to stay friends. You mean it — you still like talking to them, still care what happens…
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Her New Boyfriend Is Your Ex
Zoe's ex-boyfriend started dating her close friend Harlow a couple of months after Zoe and he broke up. Nobody did anything wrong, exactly — enough time had…
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Back Together, Again
This is the third time you and your partner have broken up and gotten back together. Every time, the reasons for breaking up feel real in the moment, and every…
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Who You're Allowed to Love
Callum has been dating Desmond for a few months, and it's the happiest he's felt in a relationship — easy, funny, real. His parents know now, and they haven't…
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The Relationship Nobody Knows About
You've been seeing someone for a couple of months, and your parents don't know. Maybe they'd disapprove of the person, or the timing, or the fact that you're…
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Losing the Spark
Nia and Rowan have been together for almost two years — a long time by teenage standards, long enough that a lot of the early excitement has settled into…
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Disappearing Into Someone Else
You used to have your own full life — friends you saw regularly, a hobby you actually cared about, plans that didn't involve anyone else's schedule. Since you…
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Not Ready for That Yet
Your relationship has been good — genuinely good — but lately your partner has started bringing up wanting to move faster physically than you're ready for.…
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Proving It
Ines has been dating someone for a couple of months, and she's started to feel like there's an unspoken test running underneath the relationship — a sense that…
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Just Checking
You and your partner have been together a while, comfortable enough that a lot of things go unsaid between you now. Lately, though, you've noticed something…
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When No Actually Means No
Tamsin was nervous about the moment — not because she expected anything bad, but because she'd never actually had to say no to something physical with someone…
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The Picture They Asked For
Someone you've been talking to has started asking for a photo — the kind you know you'd rather your parents, or a future version of yourself, never see.…
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Perfect Online, Different in Person
Isabela and her boyfriend post the kind of pictures other people save for inspiration — matching outfits, anniversary countdowns, captions that sound like they…
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Too Much, Too Fast
Someone new has come into your life fast — texting good morning and good night every day within a week, calling you their favorite person before you've had…
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Fewer and Fewer Friends
Delphine didn't notice it happening in any single moment. Her boyfriend never told her to stop seeing her friends — he just always had a reason it was…
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Remembering It Differently
You remember what happened. You said something, your partner reacted a certain way, there was a fight — you know the sequence, because you were there. But…
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Saying Something to a Friend
Cormac has watched his friend's relationship for months now, and something about it has never quite sat right — the way she checks in constantly about where…
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He Won't Take No
You've told the person you're seeing that it's over, clearly, more than once. They don't seem to be hearing it. They keep messaging like nothing happened,…
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Two People, One Heart
Petra has been with her boyfriend for several months, and nothing about that relationship has changed on paper. But lately she's noticed herself looking…
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Falling For Someone Who's Taken
You didn't plan on catching feelings for someone who's already with somebody else. It happened gradually — a friendship that got closer, conversations that…
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Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back
Xavier has liked the same girl for over a year now. She knows — he told her months ago — and she was kind about it, but clear: she doesn't feel the same way,…
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Not Your Usual Type
You always thought you knew your "type" — the kind of person you'd end up with, the qualities that mattered most to you. Then you started liking someone who…
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Dating Inside the Group
Ravi and Simone have been part of the same six-person friend group since freshman year. A few weeks ago, they started dating. Nobody saw it coming, and now…
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Everyone Has an Opinion
You started dating someone a few months ago, and you're genuinely happy. Your closest friend isn't. They haven't said it outright, but you can tell — the way…
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Do I Deserve This
Adaeze's boyfriend tells her, often and clearly, that he thinks she's beautiful. She believes that he means it. What she can't quite manage is believing it…
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Reading Into It
You've read the same text four times, trying to figure out what the punctuation means. A period instead of nothing. A slightly longer gap before they replied…
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The Rules My Family Has
Farrah's family has clear expectations about dating — not until she's older, and only with someone the family has actually met and approved of first. Most of…
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What Love Actually Looks Like
Think back over everything romance has taught you so far — the crushes that went nowhere, the ones that did, the version of yourself you were with someone who…
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