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Being Brave

Fear, trying new things, big changes and finding out that brave doesn't mean not scared.

Everything is new when you're little — a new class, a new activity, a dark room, a doctor's visit — and being brave doesn't mean not being scared, it means doing the thing anyway. This topic gives young kids permission to feel nervous and a gentle way to talk through it.

You'll find conversations about trying something new for the first time, what to do with a fear that feels too big, handling a change in routine without a meltdown, and the difference between being scared and being unsafe. Every conversation ends the same honest place: it's okay to be scared, and you can still be brave.

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The First Day of School
It was Mia's first day at school. She stood at the gate in her new shoes, holding Mum's hand tight. The building looked big. There were lots of children she…
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The Dark Bedroom
When the light went off, Noah's room looked different. The shadows made shapes on the wall. His dressing gown on the door looked like a person standing there.…
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The Big Slide
The big slide at the park was taller than Bea had ever gone down. Her friends whooshed down it, laughing. Bea climbed the ladder and looked over the edge. Her…
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The First Swimming Lesson
Theo was starting swimming lessons. He'd never been in a big pool before. Standing at the edge in his armbands, the water looked deep and the room was loud and…
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The Doctor's Visit
Yusuf had to go to the doctor for an injection to keep him healthy. He knew it might hurt for a tiny second, and that made him scared. In the waiting room, his…
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My Own Bed
Lily was learning to sleep in her own bed all night, instead of climbing into Mum and Dad's. At bedtime it felt cosy. But in the middle of the night, she woke…
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The Wobbly Bike
Kai was learning to ride his bike. He pushed off, wobbled — and fell, bumping his knee. It hurt a little, and it surprised him. He felt like giving up. "I…
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The Big Barky Dog
A big dog ran toward Nina in the park, barking loudly. Its owner was far away. Nina's heart raced and she wanted to scream and run. The dog seemed so big and…
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Show-and-Tell
It was Rosa's turn for show-and-tell. She had brought her favourite shell to talk about. But when the teacher called her name, and all the children turned to…
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The Deep End
Cora could splash happily in the shallow part of the pool. But today her swimming teacher asked her to try the deeper part, where she couldn't touch the bottom…
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The Thunderstorm
In the night, a big thunderstorm rolled in. CRASH went the thunder, and bright flashes lit up Sam's room. Sam jumped under his covers, his heart pounding. The…
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The New Dance Class
Maya started a dance class. All the other children seemed to know the steps already. Maya's arms went the wrong way, and she felt clumsy and silly. "Everyone's…
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Lost in the Shop
In the busy shop, Ben looked up and Mum wasn't there. He'd stopped to look at the toys, and now he couldn't see her anywhere. His heart raced and his eyes…
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The Haircut
Ava needed a haircut, but she'd never liked them. The buzzy clippers, the snip-snip near her ears, the cape around her neck — it all felt strange and a bit…
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The New Friend
At the park, Eli saw a boy his age playing on his own. Eli wanted someone to play with, and so, it looked, did the boy. But walking up to someone new and…
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The Loud Hand Dryer
In the public toilets, there was a hand dryer that roared really loudly. Tess had washed her hands, but now she didn't want to dry them, because the dryer made…
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The Hard Puzzle
Daniel was doing a new puzzle, but the pieces wouldn't fit. He tried and tried. It was hard, and he started to feel cross and like giving up. He pushed the…
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The Climbing Frame
Priya wanted to climb to the top of the climbing frame, where her friends were waving. But as she went up, it got higher than she expected, and she felt wobbly…
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The Scary Mask
At a dress-up party, a child put on a big, growly monster mask. Finn knew it was just his friend in a costume — but the mask looked so scary that his tummy…
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The Brave Telling
Something had happened that gave Hana a funny, worried feeling inside — an older child had been doing something that didn't seem right, and had said "don't…
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A New Teacher
Reuben was moving up to a new class with a new teacher. He'd loved his old teacher and his old room. Now everything would be different — a new grown-up, a new…
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The Moving Stairs
At the shopping centre, there was an escalator — stairs that moved! Jack watched the steps slide and disappear at the bottom and felt scared. What if he fell?…
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The Dentist
Amara was going to the dentist to have her teeth counted. She'd never been before, and she didn't know what it would be like. Would it hurt? In the waiting…
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The Brave No
At a family gathering, a relative wanted Grace to give a big kiss and sit on their lap. Grace didn't want to — she felt shy and uncomfortable, and she didn't…
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Everything Is Changing
A new baby was coming soon, and lots of things at Omar's house were changing — a new cot in his old playroom, talk of new routines. Omar felt unsteady, like…
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The First Sleepover
Ivy was going to sleep over at Grandma's house for the very first time, without Mum and Dad. In the daytime it sounded exciting. But as bedtime got closer, Ivy…
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Trying Again in Front of Everyone
In PE, the class was practising throwing beanbags into a hoop. Max threw — and missed, twice. A couple of children giggled. Max's face went hot, and he didn't…
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The Spider
A little spider scuttled across the floor near Lena, and she jumped back with a squeal. Spiders made her feel scared — the way they moved so fast on all those…
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Owning Up
Adam had been kicking a ball in the house, even though he knew the rule. The ball knocked over a photo frame and the glass cracked. His tummy went tight.…
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The Big Waves
At the beach, the waves were bigger than Ruby expected. They rushed up the sand with a roar and a splash, fizzing around her ankles before pulling back. Ruby…
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Letting Go of the Edge
Leo was in the pool, holding onto the edge. His teacher said he was ready to push off and float to her, just a little way, with his arms out. Leo wanted to —…
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The New Kid
Nina's family had moved, and today was her first day at a brand-new school where she knew nobody. Everyone else already had friends. At playtime, Nina stood by…
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Joining the Game
A big group of children were playing a chasing game at the park, shrieking and running. Sam wanted to join, but there were so many of them, and they all knew…
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The Big Show
Maya's class was doing a show for all the parents. Maya had one line to say, all by herself, on the stage. At practice it was fine. But now, peeking out at the…
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The Landing Light
Eli was used to falling asleep with the landing light on, shining through his door. But the bulb had broken, and tonight the landing was dark. Eli felt scared.…
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The New Food
There was a new food on Cora's plate — a strange new vegetable, a funny colour and a bumpy shape. It didn't look like anything she'd had before. Cora felt…
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The Question
The teacher explained a new game, but Daniel didn't quite understand the rules. Everyone else was nodding. Daniel felt confused, but he was scared to put his…
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Grandma Is in Hospital
Hana's grandma had to go to hospital to get better. Hana didn't really understand what was happening. She felt worried and a bit scared, and her tummy was…
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Wearing What I Love
Ruby's favourite thing to wear was her sparkly superhero cape, even to the park. Today, a child looked at her cape and said, "That's weird." Ruby felt her…
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The Loud Flush
The toilet in the public bathroom flushed with a huge, sudden ROAR — much louder than the one at home. Theo jumped and covered his ears. Now he didn't want to…
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What If It's Not Perfect?
Priya wanted to draw a horse. But she was scared it wouldn't look right. What if it came out wonky? What if it wasn't good? She held her crayon over the paper,…
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The Climbing Wall
At the soft play centre, there was a tall climbing wall with a wobbly cargo net. Finn's friends scrambled up it easily. Finn wanted to get to the top too, but…
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Who Goes First?
There was a new tunnel slide at the park — dark inside, so you couldn't see the bottom. All the children wanted to try it, but nobody wanted to go first into…
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Fireworks Night
It was fireworks night. The sky lit up with beautiful colours — but the bangs were SO loud, booming and crackling. Omar loved the pretty colours, but the noise…
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Going Back to the Park
Last time Tess was at the park, a big dog had given her a fright. Now it was time to go to the park again, and Tess didn't want to. What if the dog was there?…
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Sorry First
Max and his friend had had a squabble, and now they weren't talking. Max knew he'd been a bit unkind, and he missed his friend. He wanted to make up. But…
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The Hair Wash
It was hair-wash night, and Lily didn't like it one bit. She hated the water running down her face and into her eyes. In the bath, she scrunched up and…
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My Own Ice Cream
At the ice cream shop, Dad said Ben could order his own this time, and pay with the coins himself. Ben felt excited — and nervous. He'd have to talk to the…
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The Brave Buddy
Sofia's friend was too scared to go down the slide. She stood at the top, frozen, her lip wobbling. Sofia had already gone down lots of times and loved it. She…
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My Brave List
At bedtime, Ravi was thinking about his week. He'd tried a new food. He'd gone down the big slide. He'd said sorry first to his friend. He'd slept with his…
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